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Dating a divorced dad can often be a challenge for potential suitors. While divorced d often are, as studies show, viewed as more mature, better communicators, and unafraid of commitment in addition to their other, less dadly qualities, dating one comes with baggage — particularly kids and ex-spouses, both of which can be a roadblock on the path to love and commitment. By no means a deal breaker dating is, in any circumstance loaded with landmines , those who decide to date divorced fathers simply must contend with other elements.
So what is it like from the perspective of someone dating a divorced dad? Some needed to leave because they knew they could never contend with his kids or ex; others found a lot of success and long-time love. He had a son and a daughter who were just precious. But his ex-wife made sharing custody such a pain in the ass that it ruined our ability to schedule anything. It worked, too. I asked for help — pretty bluntly, actually.
He has two girls — one is a teen, the other is a few years younger. He and I have been together for almost three years. My relationship with his girls is very unique. It took me a while to realize that I would never be his first priority, and even longer to accept that. His relationship with his kids and his relationship with me intertwine, but there are also parts that are exclusive. So I do my best to concentrate on those aspects now, which makes the relationship much healthier and more fulfilling.
Nothing I said was cool, or funny, or interesting. I was just a poser trying to be a part of the conversation. I was just unaware of what kids were into. When we first started dating, I was terrified that they were all going to hate each other. But, once they got to know each other, I think they realized they all had a lot in common.
Specifically, divorced parents. So, I tried to keep some of my own stuff sacred, as well. And no one wants that. So, when I started dating my husband, I had to really, really, really train myself to play it cool. I had to be patient with him, with his son and, most importantly, with myself. And we made it work. On the same ? But, exactly identical? It just means that he devoted his life to someone before we met. He does a wonderful job making me feel loved, adored and respected. No reason. They just hated me. Maybe it was because they thought I was trying to become their new mom? Or because they were jealous their dad hung out with me sometimes, instead of just them.
But, in the end, he told me that our relationship was stressing them out, and that was it. I felt bad for him. I really did. The way he related to his daughter just showed so much love, compassion and empathy. It was really impressive and attractive. Please try again.
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